Tattoo

I have 3 tattoos (and believe it or not, my dad doesn't know!) But I would really be ashamed to let him see them because I know how conservative he is and what he thinks of them.

Our culture today is more "anything goes" than it has ever been. What do you think of tattoos? Do you think they are trashy? Do you have a tattoo or would you consider getting one? Do you think SOME tattoos are distasteful? What kind of ink do you find offensive or are there any?

getting married because she's pregnant?

This is based on what is best for the child. Problem is, people tend to get so wrapped around themselves or the relationship because they're not yet fully mature or prepared. If you and your partner can make the relationship work out and keep it without resentments, yes, you should get married. I've seen it happen, it has worked out for the best for other families. If it will just hurt you, your partner, or your baby then don't- you must consider the effect of your relationship will have on the child.

Do you think it's a good idea to get married simply because you're pregnant?

Zip Your Mouth

Harsh Words, Profane language, and words of discouragement. Those are the words need not to be said. It will only destroy one's morale and may even lose one's self control.

If we cannot say a good words to a situation, the best thing we can do is just to keep our silence. If we cannot think of a right words to say, just zip our mouth. It will not help if we keep on criticizing those persons that needs our ears to listen.

Sometimes, Silence is good enough to console a friend. A sweet Hug can do so much for a troubled soul. It's being there when a friend or love one's need us. Our presence may mean a whole new hope and will strengthens a sorrowful heart.

Give it to every one who needs it. You do not have to go so far, just look at the person besides you. They might need a friend right now. Or a love one, they might need a shoulder to cry to. have a heart. share your blessings.

Jealous

I got to thinking about this today when my sister-in-law called to tell me she had her house. There was a moment, and I do mean a moment-flash second then my ego wanted to hijack my amigdula and cause me to be angry. I will say that in that split second of thought I smiled at myself for being the observer to what the ego was doing and soon it was sent on its way.

However, I've noticed that many people don't watch their thoughts, they believe they are their thoughts. In this, they tend to act out anytime someone around them gains success, is better at something then they are, or perhaps learn a new skill. My thoughts today are why should so many people be so jealous? What does it serve? What does it really get them? Why should they try to bring someone down who has been successful? Why not simply be happy for the other person's success?

Just some thoughts today, and I'd love to hear from you about your experiences and thoughts.

Unknowingly Hurt Feelings

Well most of us have come across this situation in some part of our personal or career lives, that unknowingly we hurt the feelings of a person, sometimes they may be our close pals.

Even in a fit of rage, i lost one of my good friends, though i did not want to lose my friend, but it happened. Some times i speak frankly and people misinterpret as arrogance, but some of my friends are empathetic, whom i will never wanna lose.

And i 'm always wary that i don't hurt any one's feelings.